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Becoming a Marriage-Building Church

 

The Minnesota Marriage Minute

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The Minnesota Marriage Minute is an ongoing dialogue with Minnesota voters hosted by veteran news anchor Kalley Yanta. The educational videos are designed to explore issues related to the marriage amendment. The videos are in a question and answer format and are released on a weekly basis.

 

The Marriage Minute series is a great resource for understanding the proposed Marriage Protection Amendment and equipping you to speak about the amendment. Please share this important educational resource with family, friends and neighbors. It's critically important that all our supporters be as informed as possible about the amendment, and this series of videos is a quick and easy way for you and your friends to learn about what is at stake in this election

 

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Help your parish become a marriage-building community of faith.

  

Leaders of Catholic organizations from across the country who minister in various ways in the field of marriage and family life were invited to the first-ever Marriage-Building Summit, in Milwaukee, WI. The Summit was sponsored by the National Association of Catholic Family Life Ministers (NACFLM) and the Committee on Laity, Marriage, Family Life, and Youth of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops.

 

The goal of this summit for all of us was to understand our personal role and our organization's unique role in becoming a marriage-building church as well as making a commitment to share information with our members and collaborating with the other organizations to become a marriage-building church.  The following information is taken from  Abridged Version of "Marriage: Love and Life in the Divine Plan."

 

What Is Marriage?

"Marriage is a natural institution established by God the Creator. It is a permanent, faithful, fruitful partnership between one man and one woman, established by their free mutual consent. It has two purposes: the good of the spouses, called the unitive purpose, and the procreation and education of children. 

 

Challenges To Marriage

Contemporary society poses fundamental challenges to the meaning and purposes of marriage, including contraception, same-sex unions, divorce, and cohabitation.

 

Marriage as a Christian Sacrament:

Although marriage remains a blessing from God, Original Sin has had grave consequences for married life. As a break with God, it ruptured the original communion between man and woman. Jesus healed this rupture when he raised marriage to the dignity of a sacrament.

 

Marriage and Family: A Communion of Love

The Christian married couple, with their children, form an image of the Trinitarian God: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Marriage and family life reflect the Trinity in two ways. First, like the Trinity, marriage is a communion of love between co-equal persons, beginning with husband and wife and extending to all the members of the family. Second, just as the Trinity's love is life-giving, a married couple's love conceives and cares for children.

 

Growth In Virtue

With God's grace, couples are called to grow in holiness.

 

The Eucharist:

In the Eucharist, Catholic couples meet Christ, the source of their marriage.

 

Bishop George J. Rassas, USCCB Liaison to NACFLM, "asks us to pray together and to share our experiences, hopes, and plans in our common effort to strengthen marriage in our church, in our ministries, and in our culture. This is no easy task but so necessary and so needed today more than ever."

 

Action Plan: Take Part in this Marriage-Building Initiative

Talk with your parish priest about what you can do this year.

Put quotes in your weekly bulletins about marriage-use the Catechism of the Catholic Church, the Bible, and the USCCB Pastoral Letter.

 

Have special recognition of wedding anniversaries one Sunday of each month.

Brainstorm with others in your parish to bring families together for church activities. 

PRAY - PRAY - PRAY

 

Lorrie Gramer, the new president of the National Association of Catholic Family Life Ministers said, "whoever wants the next generation the most will get them." We must work to improve the family unit in our world today. Families come in all shapes and sizes, many as a one parent unit, but they are a family.

 

Resources

Read Patty Johnson's lead article in this newsletter.

 

Watch for Joanne Pohland's article in the September-October issue of Catholic Woman magazine.

 

From the USCCB: Marriage: Love and Life in the Divine Plan.  You can find many related materials on the USCCB website, including the Pastoral Letter in English, Spanish, and an abridged version, a leader's guide, discussion group handouts, a power point presentation, and bulletin inserts.